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Intimidation or Game Playing?
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JUN-9-06
8:58:38
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Forum: Christian Singles Fellowship and Fun
RE: Intimidation or Game Playing?
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ELFF
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Check out this, you sent a lengthy mail to a lady and she finally replies with a smile. You take the first step by asking her more about her or introduce urself. In response, she end up telling you not even 1/10th of all you asked from her. The whole thing sounds like the man is pushing too hard or even makes him looks like a scammer. A lot of ladies thinks the whole burden falls upon the man while a lot of men thinks that ladies should value a little step taken by them and come out of their shells and contribute as a sign of interest. Men are psychological when it comes to relationship To them first impression matters. A lot of man don't believe in working so hard to win a lady but believe in taking the first step of igniting an already charged object ready to burn. Besides that, its not a sin for woman to take the first step. The bible says whatever you will like others to do to you, do it to others. That culture of men pressing harder than the women trying to win is absolutely less effective in this modern generation. A lot of ladies are still stocked with this mentality. During the process of relationship a lot of men wants to see the women take more steps than they are taking.
If they see that reluctances is ur reply as regards timing and word usage, that is enough for them to shift over to someone where the BURDEN is less cos the LOAD is shared between two people who are not waiting for one person for the whole sacrifice.
Nevertheless, some men too are "die hard" lovers. They go to extremity to win their lover even when rebuffed or insulted. Whatever response a lady gives them is good and hopeful. The only word they can take serious in relationship is "Sorry i don't want" Some time some of them even try to go beyond this boundary.
Sister, i will ask you to study the life style of who you sent a smile or mail. They fall under these two categories of men. Do not be an Ireland, changing from what you are and trying the other way round may produce a nice result that you cannot imagine, but in all, carefulness should be your priority so as not to fall prey to any user
[Editor's Note: AMEN!!!]
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APR-14-06
23:18:57
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Forum: Christian Singles Fellowship and Fun
RE: Intimidation or Game Playing?
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I think the guys that send the first contact and later doesn't answer anymore is because (my opinion, I may be wrong) they send to a bunch of womaen without really checking who the woman is and when some of them answer back, just them the guys take a look at the profile and decide if want to keep the contact or not. Why they do that? For the same reason the dog eat it's own vomit: they can.
[Editor's Note: hehehe]
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APR-11-06
5:46:32
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Forum: Christian Singles Fellowship and Fun
Intimidation or Game Playing?
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LadyM
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Guys,
this question is for you, although I know that it does not pertain to all of you.
You initiate the first contact of interest either by sending a smile, a card or mail and received a response of interest. Why is that you then decide not to respond back or simply cease contact altogether? Is this some kind of game that you are playing? Not all women are into playing games. I really would like to know the reasons behind this concept because I just don't get it.
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